CommUUnicate Table. With so much happening in our congregation, sometimes it's difficult to know who does what, to know who to share your ideas and concerns with, and to know who might have the answers to your questions. The members of the Committee on Ministry (CoM) staff the CommUUnicate table and are eager to speak with you about any of these things – and more – "whatever your little ol' heart desires"! We will record your comments or questions and share with the Board President and the minister so your words are heard and don't get lost in a "black hole.” If follow-up is required, the CoM will ensure that this occurs within a timely fashion. Communication is at the heart of good relations--so join us at the CommUUnicate table or just contact one of the members of CoM: John Ivy (chair), Joyce Langenegger, Molly Ward and Rev. Donna.
From your Committee on Ministry, July 2020
Since we currently don’t see you in-person at coffee hour following Sunday worship, we have opened a virtual CommUUnicate Table. If you wish to offer a compliment, pose a question, provide feedback, or express a concern, and you know to whom to address your message, we always encourage you to contact that person directly to communicate honestly, respectfully, and directly. If you don’t know to which staff member or committee to address your message, we are here to assist. Please send an email to C-O-M@brazos-uu.org, including the topic and a phone number at which we can contact you to discuss. We can help identify who is best to receive your message and you can contact them directly, or we can transmit your message transparently for a response.
John Ivy, Joyce Langenegger, Molly Ward, and Rev. Donna Renfro
“Shared Ministry –
What It Is and Isn’t”
by Gaye Webb, Chair of Committee on Ministry
The other day I was talking with a friend of mine from Houston and the topic of “shared ministry” came up. She indicated that there was a discussion about “what it is and isn’t” at one of the groups at her UU congregation and asked me what I thought it was. My response: “It’s my guess that if you ask 10 UUs for the definition, you would have 10 different answers, maybe even 15!” She laughed and then said, “Seriously, what do you think?” After a moment or two of thought, I responded – “It’s when the minister, the lay leadership, and the congregational volunteers work collaboratively in covenant with mutual trust and support toward a common vision, a set of goals, and a legacy of this progressive faith for the congregation and the community at large.” She said, “Whew! That’s a mouthful.”
I went on to say that “It’s not when there are a lot of individual volunteers doing a lot of work.” I don’t mean to minimize the great work of individuals, but that’s not ‘shared ministry,’ in my opinion. The key part for me is “work collaboratively in covenant with mutual trust and support toward a common vision, a set of goals, and a legacy.” After all, our UU principles begin with the words “we … covenant to affirm and promote” and our sources end with “we enter into this covenant, promising to one another our mutual trust and support.” Happily, she agreed.
Upon my return to Bryan, I “Googled” shared ministry to see how others might describe it; after all, I was interested in finding the other 10-15 UU opinions. It appears that at least one UU minister shares my opinion about what “shared ministry” isn’t – a lot of individual volunteers. In fact, he says that “individualism” is preventing us from growing. In the words of Rev. Fred Muir, minister of the UU Church of Annapolis: “…we [Unitarian Universalist Congregations] are being held back and stymied – really, we are being held captive – by a persistent, pervasive, disturbing, and disruptive commitment to individualism that misguides our ability to engage the changing times.”
The minister of the UU Congregation of Frederick, Maryland, the Rev. Dr. Carl Gregg, says in a recent blog (“Who’s in Charge Here?”: The Dance between Shared Ministry and Authority) shares that “shared ministry is about partnership – and power-with instead of power-over. …We are together in this work of transforming ourselves and of transforming the world.”
At the “shared-ministry.net” website, I found three components of shared ministry:
1. Collaborative Working
Bishop Stephen Pickard, professor of Theology at Charles Sturt University, is concerned that our patterns of working in the church are not instinctively, habitually collaborative. He says that “Teamwork of shared ministry … is the way a community flourishes even amidst the pain and conflict. It is no easy street, but it is the street upon which the church has to travel…”
2. Contextual Mission
Essential to Shared Ministry is a commitment to those outside the immediate church congregation. It should not be about evaluating the church’s activities and church development. It needs to be primarily about mission, examining the place of the church within its neighborhood … how it is perceived by non-church goers and the partnerships it has or could develop with community groups. A responsive, mission-focused congregation must recognize that change is inevitable and thus must develop approaches to ministry that can help the members to cope with change, rather than seek to control it. Shared ministry offers a place to reflect and respond to rapid and discontinuous change as it gives a space for issues to be discussed collectively and where reactions to change can be evaluated and responded to.
3. Shared Learning
Shared ministry encourages others to offer their skills and experiences and take on new responsibilities. Learning presupposes setbacks, blocks, and even failures. Shared ministry seeks to make congregations a place where people can take risks and sometimes get things wrong. It is a process that is one of learning for clergy and laity, one that encourages the whole congregation to become involved in the learning and growth required of all of us.
In closing, I ask that you reflect on our ministry here a UUCBV. Are we “working collaboratively in covenant with mutual trust and support toward a common vision and a set of goals, working toward a legacy of this progressive faith for the congregation and the community at large”? If not, should we be? What changes are needed? And, if we are, what are we doing right? I have posted this article on the “Committee on Ministry” (CoM) Discussion Forum on our church website, www.brazos-uu.org. It would be great if you would post your comments there.
To post, you need to be a “member” of our “digital church”. Just sign up at the website in the “Discussion Forum” section. You do not have to be an actual member of our congregation to be approved as a “digital member”. To be clear, “digital members” are not voting members. If you want to be a voting member, contact our minister at email@example.com.
Also, remember to stop by the “CommUUnicate Table” during coffee hour on Sundays to share your ideas -- about “shared ministry”, the board's decision not to renew Rev. Donna's contract, and/or any other topics that are on your mind. Or talk with any of the CoM Members personally: Gaye Webb (chair), John Ivy, and Joyce Langenegger.
January 2020 Latitudinarian, page 6